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Tuesday, October 30, 2012

Mr. Wonderful

So it's sophomore year at BYU and I am pretty sure it's a year that's designed to kill me...literally...OK not literally but between all the minor injuries i've received in the past couple months it feels like it. But seriously my classes are hard and between those, my job and having a boyfriend and also trying to do everything else i'm suppose to do in this world I feel like a crazy maniac a lot of the time (Welcome to adult life)...

Having a boyfriend which I added into the previous list isn't really one of the things that's trying to kill me or stressing me out because having him is really really wonderful but I just wish I had more time to give him and to do things he likes to do (biking,hiking,bowling,walking...etc). He is probably my only saving grace this semester and I don't know what I would do without him keeping me in check and making sure i'm taken care of. So this post will be dedicated to me listing and bragging about all the many wonderful things he does for me so continue reading if you want, or STOP, if you don't like the whole "lovey dovey" thing, because yes...this will be that kind of post.


I didn't know I could be treated so well by a boy but Josh Golden treats me like a princess. It all started with a blender...Not really...he did nice things before, but this is where I feel like beginning. One day sitting at my grandmas house she and I were discussing how it would be nice if I had a blender at school so I could make smoothies and soups she made. I didn't have a ton of money so I would wait and buy one eventually. That day my g-ma, g-pa, Josh and I went to target so I could pick up some school supplies...while looking Josh disappeared and I must admit I was a little annoyed on his sudden vanishment...he was gone for quite a while and he was acting like a weirdo...when we all got in the car to leave I decided to just forget about the strangeness. When I got home I was unloading a storage carrier that I had bought and Josh was with me. Josh asked me if it felt extra heavy or if I noticed anything and I said "no..."....the light-bulb then turned on in my head (after him hinting a thousand times) and I checked inside the bin and he had hid a beautiful blender/processor which he had bought me! I teared up at his thoughtfulness and couldn't believe on how sweet the gift was...Thus the sudden disappearance in Target earlier.  These are the kind of things he does for me, he actually listens to what I am saying, and serves me in ways that I need it most.

I have a very busy schedule, one thing Josh does to spend time with me is he comes to some of my classes  and is always helping me with studying and work. He never  complains and I know it's not the most exciting thing for him to be doing, but he does those things so he can spend time with me and it means the world to me. Our plans are always changing because something always comes up with work or my school but he goes along with it. He is always supporting me and encouraging me and looking for ways to make my life simpler. I will often find him helping clean my kitchen and doing our dishes and when our trash is full he takes it out...I mean really why is this boy so nice??? He is always one step ahead of me and is impressively organized and hard-working.  His mother must have taught him very very very well.

I am an event planner/coordinator for on-campus housing and I have events about twice a month. This requires a lot of labor and time especially at the programs. Josh is always right besides me working to help the program go smoother and most of all making sure I allow myself to relax or have a little fun. Josh has his own job and doesn't need to be working double to be helping me, but he does, and it really helps. He is one of the most selfless people I have ever known and is always showing me what true love means.

Next, I have a habit of losing things or forgetting things at home. I am working really hard to break this but Josh knows I do this and always helps when I do something silly. After walking me to my anatomy class I realized I had forgot my extra credit for the midterm that was due in 10 min. Josh had already started walking back to his car at my house and I called him in a panic and asked if there was any way he could bring it to me since I had to stay because they were starting instructions for the test. He didn't hesitate and said of coarse and ran all the way back to bring me the paper on time. He is my knight in shining armor, always saving my day.

Now this next story is pretty funny (and pretty graphic...) but it really shows what  a truly selfless man Josh is. He got sick one day and started puking in my bathroom. I don't do puke. I mean really throw poop, blood and guts at me and I won't even flinch, but puke, that's just not something I can handle. I hear him and brace myself to see his pukey chunky face...I gag but know that I need/want to comfort him but he was already cleaning up. I got him some mouth wash and tissues and then I went to go open a window because the smell was too much. While trying to open the window some random metal bar flies down and slices my thumb open! I scream and it's bleeding and it hurts and flesh is hanging from my thumb and I start crying because really how pathetic is it that I was trying to take care of Josh and I manage to cripple my hand. Josh is all done cleaning himself up and he runs to my aid and quickly comforts me. He runs to his car, grabs his first aid kit and cuts the hanging flesh from my thumb then patches me up. Really??? He was just puking 5 minutes earlier, (poor guy, if I had puked i'd be dead on the floor bawling my eyes out with devastation) and now he's patching his girlfriend up who stupidly got cut. It was really an eventful afternoon.

Josh listens when I speak and does things for me like when I am talking about wanting to try a new hot chocolate he surprises me with it in the morning, or when I say I really like these nail stickers he again surprises me by buying them. I don't know how I got such a sincere sweet man but I thank Heavenly Father everyday for his presence in my life because he is everything to me.  Besides all the incredibly thoughtful things he does for me everyday I have so much fun with him and his hugs and kisses mean the most to me. I melt like a popsicle every time Josh grabs my hand to hold, when he kisses me on my forehead/cheek/top of head and when he puts his arms around me. Josh is my Mr. Wonderful and hopefully I can do as many nice things for him and he does for me. Ok this sappy post has come to it's end but really Josh is THE BEST.














2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Wonderful <3

Anonymous said...

Wonderful <3